Parenting

What depresses me is the fact that children get married. Children, 25 or 30 years young. They have not figured out their lives yet. They don’t know what kind of career they want, they don’t know their God, they don’t know what kind of people they want to be. Hell they’re not sure if they’re marrying the right person. They get married and then children are born. Little clueless bastards who don’t know even know if they were planned or were the result of an accident. And then those children, “Parents”, start experimenting with their little kids. Those very people who’re not even sure about their lives, are given the responsibility to raise a whole new generation. They have no instruction manual, they use only their sound judgement. And what if their sound judgement is not “sound” enough? Most kids have their lives in turmoil by the age of 20. Their parents have ruined it for them by taking wrong decisions at every step in their lives. And by the time the children grow up and start to see things, they realize how much of their lives, their personalities, their body language, their mindset has been influenced by these very influential people. Some children are lucky for their parents do realize the importance of a life of a small child and take care of the fact that their children are taught to open up their minds for children do have a brain, but they must be taught to use it. They do have eyes, but they must be taught to see. They do have ears but they must be taught to listen. They do have a voice, but they must be taught to speak. But most parents don’t even know how to use these organs themselves so how are they supposed to nurture their children?